Ankur Behal

 
Name: Ankur Behal
Generation: 2
Age: Newborn
Parents: Raj and Lakshmi Beahl
Sibilings: Imran
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Raj Behal- Ch 4- Our family is growing.

Raj (29), his wife Lakshmi (24)
Their son, Imran (5)
Narrated by Lakshmi
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Raj is such a great father. I always admire how Imran looks up to his father.  This morning we were talking about our family to Imran.  Then Raj asked if I had heard from Deeba. I told him that it has been weeks tat I heard from her.  He told me that she must be busy with school.  Imran missed his auntie and hoped that she would break away from school to come and live with us.

I was in my last trimester.  This pregnancy went much smoother than the one with Imran. At times I felt as if I was not pregnant at all. 

Soon I was reminded that indeed I was pregnant because it was time for me to give birth. Imran and I headed to hospital where Raj was waiting to hold my hand.

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After what seemed forever, I gave birth to another healthy boy. We named him Ankur.  He looked so much like Imran. 

Imran was happy to have a little brother. He did not seem to have any jealousy of not being the baby any more.  I was happy that Raj has prepared him for the responsibility of being a big brother.

As I held Ankur, I told Raj that I tried to reach Deeba several times and was surprised to find out that she had graduated early and had moved out.  Raj said that was not good and disrespectful to our family.  I knew my parents would be worried so I did not call them. After all they were still ecstatic to welcome another male grand baby.  Raj told me that he hoped that Deeba was not off disgracing our family.  I also wished that she was not either.

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the afternoons were great because I could get a lot of work done.  Imran was tired from school so he would come home and nap.  I managed to get Ankur on an afternoon schedule as well.

That evening Raj told me that he had located Deeba and was going to see her. I asked him if he would allow me to go. After hesitation he agreed but that I was to call him the minute I arrived to her apartment. I could not believe that Deeba would deliberately graduate and not tell us! How was I supposed to support her to get married if she acted this way. For sure my dream of asking Raj about getting a college degree was out of the question now. I do hope that Deeba is OK. Imran looked worried and I told him to not worry because everything was going to be fine.

Raj Behal ch 3- We are lucky.

Raj (27) his wife Lakshmi (22) and their son Imran (3)
narrated by Lakshmi

I didnt know whether telling Raj that I was pregnant again was good news or bad.  He was a little shocked that I was pregnant.

the next day Raj went to work as any other day.  He is reserved and didnt tell me much about my pregnancy. To be honest I expected him to be more excited than he was.

Regardless of how he took my pregnancy news, he is a great dad.  Everytime he comes home he says hi to me and runs straight to Imran. I don't even have to ask him for help when it comes to our son.

On this night I decided that I would bathe Imran before our guests came over for dinner.  Imran loves his baths a little too much. He would love to be in that tub forever. Once he was bathed I decided to put him to bed.

We have become friendlier with his colleague Carson and his wife Vanessa. I like having dinner with them.  Conversation flows freely amongst us.

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No matter how late we go to sleep, I still have to get up early to make sure that Imran has breakfast.  He wakes up at exactly the same time like clockwork.

To my surprise Raj got up and fixed all of us breakfast.  I was truly shocked.  He told me he was so proud of me being a mom but he was scared about being a dad to a second child.  His job is busier than now than before but he is a great dad.

I made sure that he knew he was not only a great dad but a great husband as well.  I am so in love with this man.

Yes I definitely am one lucky woman. I love my family and can't wait for the arrival of our new baby.

Raj Behal- Ch 2- I want more.

Raj (25) his wife Lakshmi (20)

Narrated by Lakshmi
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Raj's practice is now finally steady. For a minute I was worried that we would not have enough money to pay our rent. The good news is that here they pay you whether patients subscribe to your clinic or not. While Raj is curing his patients I am here at home with Imran.

Raj feels bad that by the time he comes home Imran is asleep. We have been talking about celebrating his second birthday but my sister Deeba is unable to come home for the party. Raj felt that we should wait to celebrate at a later time. He asked about Deeba and I was happy to report that she is doing great at University.

I myself didn't go to university but Raj teaches me some things at night. Once our kids are grown then I will attend university if I do desire. I am grateful that Raj is not a strict traditionalist.

Now that Imran is 2 he is able to walk more and talk a bit more. Raj has asked me if I would like to start trying for another baby. I would love another baby but where would we fit another child?

I told Raj that we should start planning another baby but we needed more space. Raj agreed and told me that it was time we started house hunting or renting a spacious apartment. If I had a house then a maid would be allowed....for an apartment I would have to clean it. As much as I am tempted I think it will be better if we get an apartment. For now it looks like we will be trying to get a new bundle of joy and an apartment.

Raj Behal ch1-Here we are

Raj (23) his wife Lakshmi (18) and her sister Deeba Shalo (16)
Narrated by Lakshmi

Raj and I were married over a year ago. It seems like yesterday I was home planning my wedding and now im here in the states. I still look at Raj and wonder what the future holds for us.
We moved because he got offered a great position in a new hospital here in Viramontes. No matter how I try I can not get used to this cold town. I feel like there is no warmth with its people. I feel so out of place but I act happy so that my husband will be comfortable.

We brought my little sister with us here as well. Deeba begged my parents to allow her to come here with us. She is planning on attending university here while I accompany my husband. It is different for Deeba than me. She can still dress as she wishes while I am wearing traditional wedding garbes.

Now that we are settling in here I can only hope that Raj gets a little more modern. One can only hope.

I told Raj today that I am certain that I am pregnant. I could not believe that we are going to be brave enough to raise a kid here. I just hope that our baby will embrace our culture. Raj keeps daydreaming about our child. He couldnt wait to tell his parents about my pregnancy.

With the news of the baby time flew by. Before we knew it, Deeba was ready to go off to college. Raj is always suggesting her to become a physician like him. I do not think that she will follow in my husband's footsteps but one never knows.

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As with any new job, one has to meet the co-workers and their wives. Raj allowed me to dress outside our traditional wedding clothes. I could not believe it when he bought me these pants. I have not worn pants since before our wedding.

My husband's co-workers are a little strange but I put up with them. His boss Mr. Awon kept asking me how many months I was. Do these people not know that woman generally talk to other males. I tried to politely tell him but he still insisted on knowing if I was liking the food. I just wanted to go back home.

We left and Raj took me to this place to try out Bowling. I guess we are getting more and more "modern". Raj actually touched my stomach in public. I was so embarrassed but he told me that it was normal thing to do here in the states. I hope all goes well when this baby comes. We know its a boy so our heritage is now sealed.