Ian Barillas- Ch. 13- Something in her personality

Ian (47)
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Allyn and I are still dating. It seems too much work to end the relationship. I did try a few times but everytime that I tried, she would convince me that we were fine. I mean the sex life was great but I need soemthing more.
 
Sure we had great times. I would always think of her like a special girl in my life.  I think she knew that it was not going to work out. No matter how much she tried I just didn't feel the need to move the relationship further.
 
WE slept together one last time before we called it quits. Before you go judging me ...she wanted to sleep together one last time. Who was I to deny her ?

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My boys and little girl come to visit me whenever they get a chance.  August is still single but it seems that he is getting along with his ex and is allowed to have his kids with him as well.  I love seeing my grandhildren.  I am not goign to lie.  It seems odd to me that I am a grandfather. But I can at least say that I am a hot one!  For me the idea of haing more children is done.  Four kids for me is more than plenty.  Sayra is 16 now and she is about to hopefully go off to college.  Darcy is currently in college and does not come around as often.  I do not pester him because I am proud of him fighting his own demons and going to college. It is more than I n say for my other children. This is why I hope that Sayra goes to school.

fFor now Sayra doesn't say anything to me. I talk to her mother once in a while and she tells me that Sayra is doing well.  I couldn't ask for anything more.

The best is seeing my grandchildren cause havoc. I hae always been more of a free spirit when it came to raising my children. Their mom's were the disciplinarians when I was with them.  I think they did a great job.

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I met up with my brother Marcos at the local coffee bar.  His life is going great. He and his wife have toddle riplets and he takes every opportunity they can to get a break.  For now he was here with me to take a break but he had to leave soon after arriving.

I started dating a co worker of mine named Mackenzie.  We both were in agreement that this was just a hook up an no where near a relationship.  We both had a need and knew how to fulfill it.
 
One night I went out to meet her and she stood me up.  My going out was not in vain because I met a young lady named Michelle Tse.  She is 28 and was not shocked when I told her I was 47.  She actually said that she loves older men because they do not get false hope of a relationship. I was intrigued by her attitude.

I decided to ask her out a few more dates.  We clicked instantly.  We both had a great time hangin out. She actually took my money in a poker game we played. 

I finally convinced her to come to my apartment for dinner.  She was worried that we were getting too serious but I told her we weren't. I made sure we both knew that this was casual.  This girl was a breath of fresh air!
 
I definitely was liking this girl a lot.

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To our surprise, we had been dating for several months.  She asked if I would meet her friends and I told her why not.  They had a picnic and they seems like nice girls.  They right away asked me my age and I did not shy away from telling them. They seemed to take it well. However I did not care because I only cared about what Michelle and I thought about this.  This is one of my drawbacks of young women.  They care too much about their friend's opinions.
 
Not my Michelle.  When she saw that her friend was grilling me, she came over and put her friend in her place.

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We decided to date exclusively. It had been a while since we both had a serious relationship. However we both felt secure in our new relationship.

One night we were in bed and I asked her to move in with me.  She told me that she would love too.  It had been a while since I felt this happy.

The next morning , Michele said she would go and get her clothes and other items to move in. 


I got ready to go to work. Imagine my surprise when leaving my home, I saw all these red roses.For a mintue I was wondering who they were from.  I nervously grabbed a card and realized quickly that they were from Michelle. I smiled all the way to work.  Yes this girl is definitely a keeper.


author's note:
Ian is a love machine!  I get him to meet all these women and none of them peek his interest after a quickie. I mean come on IAN!  Finally Michele kind of peaked his interest. I wonder if he will ever roll a marriage want for anyone.